The signs when they hate you vs when they love you
Aries (when they hate you):
Distant. They'll pretend they didn't even see you when you pass by them, and if you say something to piss them off, they will not stay quiet, so prepare.
Aries (when they love you):
They always want to talk to you, they'll always try to make plans with you. They'll put your needs before their own, they always want to make sure that you are happy.
Taurus (when they hate you):
Straight up ignores you. They won't even look at you, you're basically dead to them. But if you say anything that annoys them they will argue with you, and they won't give up.
Taurus (when they love you):
It'll be a while for them to open up to you, but when they love you, they will surely trust you with things. They will want to hang out with you, and take you places because they don't ever want to lose you.
Gemini (when they hate you):
They. Will. Call. You. Out. They don't even care who's watching them scream at you. They don't like staying quiet about people they dislike, they want to make sure that people know they don't like you.
Gemini (when they love you):
Will tease you and will unknowingly flirt with you a lot. They will seem comfortable around you, and maybe even chill. They'll try to make plans with you and they'll get you whatever you want, they like to see the ones they love happy.
Cancer (when they hate you):
Honestly, they're not ones to hate anybody, but if they do, they wouldn't want to cause problems so they'll keep it to themselves. If you provoke them though, they will spill all your secrets and all the shitty things you've done to make them hate you.
Cancer (when they love you):
Will worry about you, and will always want to make sure that you are happy. They will want to make you feel comfortable around them, they will trust you. They will ask you lots of questions because they want to know you more.
Leo (when they hate you):
Shady af. They'll probably talk to everyone else BUT you about it, and they always somehow make it seem like you're the bad guy. If you piss them off enough though, they will confront you in front of everyone, and they will try to embarrass you.
Leo (when they love you):
If they did something wrong, they'll apologize to you, not once, not twice, but as many times as it takes because they don't like losing the ones they love. They will defend you with everything they've got and will always be there for you.
Virgo (when they hate you):
They act like you aren't worth their time. They'll pretend you dont exist or they won't even notice you walking past them or when you talk to them.
Virgo (When they love you):
Is open with you, isn't shy and reserved and they compliment you a lot. They trust you and tell you things they wouldn't normally tell other people.
Libra (when they hate you):
Is easily angered with you and has no patience with you whatsoever. They will try to tell you they no longer want to be friends, and then they won't talk to you again. They will easily find new friends.
Libra (when they love you):
Always wants to do something with you, no matter what it is. They spend a lot of their time talking to you and making jokes, they will also compliment you and flirt without even noticing.
Scorpio (when they hate you):
They will just tell you. Honestly they don't like being forced into friendships and if they feel forced with you they will let you know, and they are not ones to sugarcoat things, they probably don't care if they hurt your feelings.
Scorpio (when they love you):
Always wants to make sure you're alright, and probably wants to make future plans with you. They talk to and about you often and will defend you if someone decides to mess with you.
Sagittarius (when they hate you):
Completely ignores you, lol. They won't even know you exist and they'll cut any ties that they may have with you. If you decide to mess with them though they will scream at you in front of everyone because they are not afraid of confrontation.
Sagittarius (when they love you):
Takes you everywhere you want to go, and pays for you if they have the money. They will do anything for you as a friend and will not hesitate to defend you, or protect you from people who may try to hurt you.
Capricorn (when they hate you):
They'll call you out for everything you do, they don't like confrontation but will not avoid it if they feel they have something to say, they'll also tell you everything you're doing wrong.
Capricorn (when they love you):
Super fun around you and they let their guard down, you'll always see them laughing with you, or even smiling, they will want to make future plans with you.
Aquarius (when they hate you):
Gives you faces and if you ask them questions they will give you short answers because they really don't want to be talking to you, if an Aquarian doesn't like you, you'll know by the tone of voice they have when they talk to you.
Aquarius (when they love you):
Talks to you about everything, they don't hide their emotions from you because they know they can trust you. Wants to go on road trips with you, or just wants to spend time with you, no matter what you are doing, they will always stand up for the people they love.
Pisces (when they hate you):
Manipulative liars. They will probably pretend to be your friend because they 'don't want to hurt your feelings' you will know they don't like you because occasionally they will get angry at you for no reason.
Pisces (when they love you):
Wants to have deep talks with you all night, and they want to talk about their future together with you. They'll make lots of plans and will always like to be around you.
Honestly I’m so sick of seeing rich-girl fitness. Don’t show me pretty vegan smoothies in mason jars held by a girl with perfect makeup, a manicure, and a color-coordinated running outfit. Show me diets and workouts that I can manage when I’m working 13 hours days and living on a budget. Show me how to eat healthy when I have 5 minutes for lunch. Show me small things I can do to help my body. Show me workout plans that I can do outside of a gym when I can’t afford a membership. I don’t have time. I don’t have money. Half the time I don’t have the motivation to get up in the morning. But I have a body. I want to be healthy.
So this guy hates EVERYONE… except for you. He’s a broody, arrogant misanthrope who just can’t stand people… except for you. You alone are the special, interesting, unique person worth his time, attention, and respect. Everyone else, as far as he’s concerned, is a tedious waste of time because they just don’t get it. They don’t get him!
Sure, his general misanthropy is kind of a character flaw, but it makes you feel sort of special that someone who hates everyone actually likes you. And maybe you can work on those rough edges! He’s nice to you, and that’s what matters, right?
Don’t buy into it, Jane Eyre. This kind of person may make you the exception for awhile, but why? Sure, you’re interesting and unique and you have a lot to offer, but so do some of the people he summarily dismisses. What’s the difference between you and them?
When someone is an asshole to literally everyone but you, he’s not an interesting, brooding soul. He’s an asshole. He wants something from you, so he’s willing to bend a little; he doesn’t think it’s worthwhile to show respect or courtesy to anyone he doesn’t want something from. And all that arrogance doesn’t mean he actually has anything to be arrogant about.
Don’t settle for someone with the personality of a rotten fish. You’re not being let into some exclusive club; you’ve just met an asshole who wants something from you. Pay attention to how a potential partner treats peoplehe doesn’t have to be nice to. It’s a pretty important clue to whether he’s fit company for human beings.
because i don’t have to work again until wednesday and i need something to bide my time and also i want to hop on the bandwagon and celebrate some awesome blogs!!
tumblr is so annoying y'all can’t just write off people’s entire existences because they’ve done a couple things that weren’t so great do you do that to people in real life like if your friend forgets to use their turn signal or swears in front of a child do you just write them off as problematic trash and never speak to them again how are you living your lives like this it must be exhausting
im gonna reblog this once a day so some of y’all can read this daily!!!!!!!!
If you’re following me and you’re Muslim go ahead and send me a list of things you’d like me to tag ‘nsfr’
If I’m right Ramadaan starts the 17th so I’ll begin tagging on the 16th. I just want to make my blog as safe as possible for my Muslim followers during this time.
